PROFESSIONALS

No One Should Have to Experience Violence

Dating violence is common but often hidden in young people’s relationships.
According to studies (University of Tampere 2023; Federation of Mother and Child Homes and Shelters 2019), nearly every second young person has experienced some form of violence in a dating relationship.

Regardless of gender, violence has serious consequences. Boys and young men are less likely to recognize their experiences and talk about them than girls and women. Shame and fear of stigma often prevent them from seeking help.

When help is not sought, the consequences can include mental health problems, difficulties in relationships, and the repetition of violence in future relationships.

Tyttö ja poika kävelevät puistossa käsi kädessä aurinkoisena päivänä selät kameraan päin.
Poika istuu kaatuneen puun rungolla kädet syliin ristittynä. Kuvassa ei näy pojan kasvoja.

Why the Role of Professionals Is Essential

Early recognition and open discussion by professionals are key.
A young person may not recognize what they’ve experienced as violence or know how to seek help. When a professional brings up the issue, it can be a crucial moment in breaking the cycle of violence.

Professional support is a central part of the project’s work — both in helping young people who have experienced violence and those who have used violence.

Professional Support Service

We offer free and confidential support to boys and young men aged 13–29 who have experienced or used violence in a dating relationship.

For professionals, our service provides:

  • The opportunity to consult with our staff

  • Support in reflecting on individual client situations

  • Collaboration in service coordination and planning further support

Meetings and training sessions can also be arranged remotely.

Poika ja tyttö istuvat kaatuneen puunrungon päällä vierekkäin. Pojan käsi on tytön polvella. Kuvassa ei näy kasvoja.

Training and Collaboration

We offer professionals free training sessions, workshops, and discussion events that can be included as part of other training programs or organized as separate sessions.

Information sessions and workshops

  • “Let’s Talk About Dating” – a workshop focused on recognizing and addressing violence

  • Exercises and tools for preventing violence

  • Applicable in schools, educational institutions, and youth work

Lectures for young people

We can facilitate guided discussions with young people about safe relationships and preventing violence.

Online sessions

All trainings and workshops are also available online.

We Develop and Share Materials

The project produces information and practical tools for recognizing, addressing, and preventing violence.
All materials are free of charge and can be freely used in youth work, social services, education, and healthcare.

Why Gender-Sensitive Support Is Needed

Girls and women are more often subjected to sexual violence, while boys and men more frequently experience psychological, digital, and physical violence.

Targeted support does not exclude other forms of help — it complements them.
It is important that all genders receive the support they need and are recognized as victims and experiencers of violence.

Project Goals with Professionals

  • Increase knowledge and understanding of dating violence

  • Strengthen professionals’ ability to address the issue

  • Develop collaboration and service coordination

  • Create new tools for recognizing and preventing violence

The project’s development work is based on the results of youth discussion groups and professional surveys. These help generate up-to-date knowledge and practical solutions.

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References

Up to 19% of teens experience dating violence. Psychologists want to break the cycle.